This is a contradiction if there ever was one. Is the resolution that it depends on what kind of relationship we’re talking about, on exactly who is out of sight? How can two things that are so opposite be so true? We’ve all had the experience of missing someone (or someplace) when we’re apart. Sometimes we romanticize the person when they’re far away, and when all their flaws and annoying habits aren’t right there in our face. And yet, we’ve also had the experience of not thinking about people, even those we’re close to, when we’re apart. This T-Shirt acknowledges that having contradictory feelings, even about loved ones, is all part of life’s rich tapestry. Sometimes the conversation takes us to a place that Freud would recognize. Ceramic• 11 oz mug dimensions: 3.79″ (9.6 cm) in height, 3.25″ (8.3 cm) in diameter• Lead and BPA-free material• Colored rim, inside, and handle• Dishwasher and microwave safeThis product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!