Some nights you open a drawer and pull out something that shifts the whole temperature of the room. This is one of those things. The moment it comes out, the dynamic between you changes. There is an awareness, a little charge, and suddenly the night has somewhere interesting to go.The Spank is a full silicone paddle, which means it has a give and flexibility that leather does not. That matters because it lets you calibrate exactly how much you want to bring to any given moment. The raised skull texture is not just visual. On impact it leaves a temporary imprint on her skin, which is exactly as charged as it sounds. The sound it produces on contact is satisfying in the best way, that clean sharp crack that makes both of you more present. She feels the warmth and the sting. He feels the control and her response to it. That back and forth is the whole point.What you are building here is trust expressed in a very specific way. She gives something over. He handles it well. That exchange lands differently than almost anything else you can introduce to a night together, and it tends to stay with both of you. The kind of thing she brings up with a look a week later.Product DetailsOverall Length: 14.75 inches (37.5 mm)Width: 2.25 inches (5.7 mm)Material: 100% siliconeSurface Detail: Raised skulls for extra sting and temporary skin imprintSkin Safe: Hypoallergenic, non-irritating, compatible with sensitive skinWhat's Included: The Spank paddle, collectible skull key chainStorage: Large hanging loop at end of handle