The 3 ABCs of Successful Parenting Though there may be some exceptions, generally speaking, if a child chooses evil as an adult it is probably because his parents failed in some way to properly train him as a child. There are 3 ABCs of Successful Parenting that work together to help parents produce wise, godly children: A - Always win in training the child to obey.The parent, not the child, must be the winner in every contest of wills. A teenage rebel is often the product of a child who was not made to obey. B - Be gentle.Firmness must be balanced with gentleness or it easily becomes harshness. Greatness in a child is produced by gentleness in his parents. C - Consistently be consistent.Parents must not "start and stop." They must stand together so that children know it is not possible to "pit one against the other." Running time: 58 minutes
