What the guide covers How It Works — A simple three-step process: answer 20 questions, plot your result on the Warmth × Structure map, and get a personalised action plan pointing you to the exact guides and pages to read first. Warmth Self-Assessment (10 Questions) — How connected, attuned, and emotionally present are you? Score yourself on noticing feelings before behaviour, making time for one-on-one connection, apologising when you've been too sharp, and knowing what's currently hard for your child this week. Structure Self-Assessment (10 Questions) — How clear, consistent, and follow-through are you? Score yourself on meaning it when you say no, following through on consequences, holding limits through tears and meltdowns, and not repeating yourself more than twice before acting. Plot Your Result — Both scores out of 40, plotted on the Warmth × Structure 2×2 map. You land in one of four quadrants: Firm & Kind (the goal), Permissive (warm but no follow-through), Authoritarian (rules without connection), or Disengaged (survival mode). Your Action Plan — Each quadrant gets a specific diagnosis, a "read first" recommendation pointing to exact pages in the bundle, and the one habit to build over the next 30 days. Permissive parents start with structure. Authoritarian parents start with repair. No generic advice. Your 30-Day Reading Order — A week-by-week path through the Complete Programme, pivoted to your quadrant. Week 1: read this. Week 2: read this. Week 3: read this. Week 4: read this. No guessing. Re-Assessment Tracker — A mini version of the 2×2 map with space to re-take the assessment at 30, 60, and 90 days. Track your dot moving. The question at the bottom: "What's the smallest, most repeatable shift that moved your dot? Keep doing that." What's included Included What it does 20-Question Self-Assessment Scores you on Warmth (10 questions) and Structure (10 questions) so you know exactly where you sit — not where you wish you were. The 2×2 Quadrant Map Plots your result on the same Warmth × Structure framework used across the entire Firm & Kind series. Quadrant-Specific Action Plans Tells you which guides to read first and which habit to build next — pivoted to your result, not generic. 30-Day Personalised Reading Order A week-by-week path through the Complete Programme so you're not opening 9 guides at random. Re-Assessment Tracker Space to re-take the assessment at 30, 60, and 90 days and watch your dot move. Bundle-Native Design Every recommendation points to a specific product or page already in the Complete Programme. Nothing referenced that isn't in the bundle.
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