Responsible Friend

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CD & Test Pressing will be signed by Elizabeth Ziman (while supplies last). Elizabeth Ziman is the singer-songwriter and creative force behind Elizabeth and The Catapult, known for her piano-driven compositions, sharp emotional insight, and disarming honesty, and who has built a career on songs that balance wit and vulnerability with striking precision. She’s toured with the likes of Sara Bareilles and Kishi Bashi; collaborated with with Esperanza Spalding, Gillian Welch, Blake Mills and Ben Folds; scored, with Paul Brill; and her songs have been featured in national television campaigns for Google, Amazon, Sky TV, and So You Think You Can Dance. Responsible Friend is an album about the ways in which we show up for one another. What does it mean to be a responsible friend — to be there for someone you love without trying to save them? “The first lesson I learned about caregiving,” says Elizabeth, “is that I need to put on my own oxygen mask before I can help anyone else. The next lesson (and the one you won’t find in an airline seat-back) was that no matter how much I wanted to, I couldn’t take away anyone’s pain. I wasn’t there to fix anyone. I just had to accept them on their own terms.” That philosophy runs throughout the album, with songs about a family member’s passing, a friend living with long COVID, and the shared burden of a society steeped in conflict and injustice. “I realized that everyone I knew, including myself, was being asked to process an enormous amount of grief at an alarming pace,” she says. “Writing these songs became my way to surrender to those experiences and slow down enough to be fully present for the people in my life.” Some of the songs on Responsible Friend are joyful dedications; others feel more like letters Elizabeth wasn’t sure she wanted to send. Taken together, it’s a record about slowing down in a world that keeps accelerating. It’s a commitment to friends, family, and self, at a time when everyone seems to be carrying more than they can reasonably hold. With Responsible Friend, Elizabeth Ziman delivers a record that feels both intimate and expansive, an unflinching reflection on care, grief, and the stuff it takes to keep showing up. “Beautiful, thoughtful, smart music largely built around her very approachable and warm voice” —NPR Music “There are many glimpses of Leonard Cohen...at her best, she sounds as delicately resolute as the bird on the wire.” —The New York Times “effective and affecting songwriting ” —John Schaefer Show more